Thursday, December 31, 2009
So here we sat 10 days ago really looking at the numbers and FREAKING OUT!!! Nothing we could say or do would change it. And Christmas already bought & under the tree (over the top as my usual) and vacation already planned (again over the top). We decided to tighten the belt straps and "get religion", albeit a little late, at least we now have it. So out comes the "tight" budget, we dip into savings and we cancel our vacation. I'm such a baby, that part was really hard for me. I was so looking forward to it. But - the wonderful thing is that we hadn't told the kids so they had NO IDEA when we cancelled it.
Now - it's New Year's Eve and rather than celebrating at our vacation destination, we are home. But you know what, it turns out I am really glad we didn't go. We've supplemented with lots of family hang out and game time and it has been really great!! The best part has been having Emily here for a week straight. Usually when we have her for that long it's because we are out of town. Her being here for this long and just hanging out at home and being together is really nice.
So Happy New Year everyone. Obviously my New Year's resolution is to become a much better employee of our business. New hours are 9:00 - 3:00 each day, until further notice LOL. What are your resolutions this year? Leave me a comment and let me know what you're planning!
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Ok - side note here. I am eating a clementine (you know those cute little tangerine oranges that you can easily peel) and I totally wasn't thinking about the mix and I just took a sip of my coffee - UGH!! What an unusual taste LOL.
So anyway, back to Christmas. I can't wait for the kids to open their presents and see what Santa brings them. Watching their faces and hearing their exclamations of joy is always so amazing. And I must admit I am excited about opening my presents too!!
We stay home for Christmas and actually don't have alot going on. With mine and Dan's mother's both being deceased there are not many family obligations. We go to my dad's the Saturday before Christmas for the blended family gathering and that's it. Dan's dad is in Texas and we don't go there over the holiday's due to Emily. Since we share her with her mom during this time there aren't enough days for us to travel. Dan and I both have brothers we are close too, but mine lives in MS and always comes here for Thanksgiving and Dan's lives here and spends Christmas with us. This weekend we will also get together with our close friends and share a meal and exchange gifts - we are really looking forward to the time with them.
Today David and I are relaxing around the house and will babysit later for my best friends new puppy, Winnie the Weimeraner. She is 12 weeks old and precious!! Dan is working and Emily is at her mom's. She will be here tomorrow after lunch and we plan to open what's under the tree then and Santa has arranged to not come here until tomorrow night so we can get up all together on the 26th and see what Santa brought!
Hope you all are having a wonderful season and pray that you all are taking the time to remember the birth of our Saviour!!
Monday, December 21, 2009
Here are a few of the latest:
- as we were discussing Jesus' upcoming birthday and the little party we would have here, "Mom do I have to go to Heaven to get a cupcake?"
- regarding his new Bat Cave my parents gave him the other night, "My batman house isn't as fun to play with here as it was at Granddaddy's!" I said do you think that might be because cousin Luke was there and yall were playing batman together. "Nope, toys are just more fun there."
- our closest friends have a new puppy, named Winnie, "Mom, we need to get 3 new dogs and get rid of Teddy (our boxer) and we need to name them all Winnie." I gave him some line about not having the same name because they'd get confused when we called, etc. etc. and he says, "No, they won't get confused because each one will have a different colored collar!"
- regarding toys in the floor and needing to pick them up so people won't trip over them, "that's ok, I can just show them how to jump over the toys and then they won't trip on them."
- out of the blue he says this morning, "Mom, I think we need presents all year!"
- "when we get our baby, I'm going to do ____"; does he know something that we don't? We are done and have been fixed and don't plan for more, but he doesn't believe me
- he thinks he is a "cool surfer dude" because he caught some beads at Mardi Gras and the design (to him) looks like a surf board
- Dan and I were talking about our kitchen remodel and we didn't agree on some aspect or another and we were talking the pros and cons out and David just walked in and said "Daaaad (you have to drag it out, real Southern), don't you know that mom is always right!"
I know this is not all the funnies lately, but I am still on my first cup of coffee so not as fresh as I'll be later.
The other thing that has made me smile lately is his enjoyment with Christmas and cold weather and traditions and snow and Mardi Gras and all the fun that winter has to offer.
- very into decorating this year, especially the colored balls for the tree
- asked me would we make sugar houses ?? again this year like we did last year (realized he was talking about gingerbread houses we made when he was 3)
- now drinks hot cocoa out of a to go coffee cup
- knows all the good traditional Christmas songs and Alvin and the Chipmunks Christmas
- loves the concept of wrapping presents and is very particular about which wrapping paper he wants used on his presents, his favorite is the nativity paper we have. He calls it the Mary/Joseph paper
- thrilled to see Santa and actually looked forward to it and really talked to him
- wants to listen to Christmas music and watch Christmas shows everyday
- rode the Christmas train at the mall again
- went to his first Mardi Gras parade
- played in the snow, made snow angels, snow ice cream and a snowman
- gave Valentine's to his friends, made one for me, shopped for flowers with Dan and enjoyed being part of the big family dinner and present exchange
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Monday, December 14, 2009
He's growing up so fast and turning into such a boy. He talks about mud and dirt and cars and trucks and rockets and space and tools and hitting and "stinky". But, alas, the good and the bad are all part of the experience. I guess next thing he'll come home from school talking about cooties or something, LOL. One things for sure though - he'll come home talking. He NEVER NEVER NEVER shuts-up, unless he's asleep. I have to share one of his "funnies" from this weekend. He was drinking a soda and had it on the coffee table (yes, I let my child have soda!). Then he proceeded to "crash" his cars into the can, which pushed it closer to the edge of the table. I said David, you know better than that, please stop so you don't spill the soda. He said, but mommy I'm just driving my cars. I said what will daddy say if your "driving cars" knock that soda on the floor. He said (with no hesitation), daddy will get my butt and put me in my bed! Doing all I could do to keep a straight face, I said, well then - don't you think you should stop crashing your cars into the can. YES MAM!!!
Monday, December 7, 2009
We had a wonderful Thanksgiving at my dad's - there were 19 of us and we ate like kings. My brother was in town from MS for the week and it was great to visit with him. He and I did the crazy black friday shopping scene - from midnight until about 8:00am, it was tiring, but fun.
Our house is ready for Christmas. We have a real tree this year, which is a first for us. It is beautiful!! I'm so happy with it. The kids and I decorated while Dan "supervised" and then put the star on top. David is at just the right age this year to really be into the decorating. He had so much fun and was quite upset that we couldn't just keep loading up the tree - we kept telling him it was done and looked great, but he wanted LOTS more ornaments on there. I need to get my wreath on the front door and that will be all for outside this year. We have a surprise trip planned 2 days after Christmas so I wanted a little less to put up this year.
This is getting long so I'll try and wrap up with a quick update on everyone.
Dan is doing great - still in remission and handling the lingering side effects well. He still has a little more fatigue than I'm 100% comfortable with, but all things considered - he's GREAT!! He's been really busy with more vacancies than we like - this economy, combined with Christmas expenses are causing lots of our tenants to be late with their rent. He is also working on several projects around here in his shop and about to start on a new kitchen pantry cabinet for me - woo hoo!!!
Emily is currently dealing with strep, but aside from that her health is great. The thyroid medicine is working well and she has actually (finally) gained a little much needed weight. She is all teenager now and it is "interesting" to say the least LOL. Dance is over for the year and she's thinking of doing gymnastics over the winter. She was here this weekend for the Christmas decorating and present wrapping and we had lots of fun - that girl LOVES to wrap presents (yeah me!!). She had to build a marble roller coaster with lots of specifics and she and Dan worked on it over Thanksgiving - cutting, grinding, welding, etc. It turned out really well and the teacher asked to keep it so she could show classes in the future. Emily scored two 100's!!
David is his usual pistol ball self. He still loves school, loves people, loves trains, cars, balls, etc. Just as active as ever. His soccer season is over and sadly he missed the team party because he had strep. He is much better now though, oh and so is his ear. We went to Children's last Monday for his final ear surgery check and doc was thrilled. The ear looks great on the inside and out and the 35db hearing loss is no more - his hearing was great!!! He is playing basketball this winter and practice for that starts this week.
Whew - I've got to get back into my update routine so these aren't so long and that will enable me to share the funny little day-to-day things that really make life worthwhile!!!
Monday, November 16, 2009
But it's kind of scary because I do drive a SUV, my life does revolves around my kids, we are middle-class, I do like expensive coffee and my cell phone... The list goes on. But if you read some of the derogatory definitions I hope you will see which parts I don't agree with.
So you ask, what brought on all this talk of soccer? Well primarily because David played soccer for the first time this season on the 4 & 5 year-old team at his school. He had lots of fun and is looking forward to playing again in the spring. The sport is good for him because it's all about running around - non-stop!! Anyway, as I was scanning in his team picture this morning I started thinking about soccer moms, so here we are ;-)
Oh one little funny thing before I sign off. We are avid college football fans and I am often screaming at the TV say go baby go or something to that effect. I use the word baby loosely if I don't know the players name or can't see his number, etc. Well David always expresses mild interest in this and asks which one is your baby and I'll say all the boys in Blue or White (whether Auburn is home or away). So yesterday he and I were flipping channels after we came in from playing and I came across a U17 play-off game and asked him did he want to watch the big boys play soccer on TV. YES!!!! So we watch for a few minutes and then he starts yelling go baby go!! I am cracking up and trying to not let him see me laugh. Then he turns to me and said mom I'm just going to have 1 baby, not all of them. I said OK, which number is "your" baby and he said no number just the one in the yellow by himself, which was the ref LOL.
Well my scanner is being tempermental this morning so I'll add some pics later.